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Toxic families are made up of toxic family members. These toxic people may be your parents, siblings, grandparents, aunts and uncles, or they can be your in-laws and cousins. The reality is that if you have to question whether someone is toxic, they probably are. Toxic parents exhibit a chronic lack of empathy towards their children," Shannon Thomas, trauma therapist and author of Healing from Hidden Abuse tells Bustle.What is family toxicity? In families with toxic parents and siblings, passive aggression and nonstop competition are common. Toxic parent isolation is also common. This puts children in the role of either trying to please a toxic parent or being a target for criticism.There are many possible signs of emotional or psychological abuse. The parents may be physically present, but emotionally absent. Or, they may take a hard line on parenting issues such as education, health, religion and money, while ignoring the child’s perspective."A toxic family member can induc...

The modern English term 'spirituality' refers to spirit  and comes from the Latin spiritualitas. Spiritualitas springs from the noun spiritus which means 'the breath of life'. The semantic root of spiritus is the word spirare which meant to breathe, to blow and to live.         Spirituality is the rediscovery of who you are and your absolute purpose for living. It is the discovery of yourself as a spiritual being on a human journey, as well as a discovery of God/Goddess/All That Is (however you perceive it) and your relationship to that power or consciousness. Spirituality has to do with an individual’s awareness of their own needs and desires.  The first step toward spirituality is to realize that you already are a spiritual being. You are made up of body, mind and spirit. This is not just some New Age idea or religious dogma; it is simply a fact. Spirituality is not religion. Being spiritual means having an awareness of God, being in tune with its wa...

Well who is to say i didn't? (eloel) I always found myself saying "man, i'd kill to have someone to talk to, "i would pay good money to have someone listen to what i had to say" I mean, who wouldn't? its easier to handle our problems if we feel like we have a support system, you cannot even imagine how many times I've begged the heavens to send me someone that will hold the space for me to be completely vulnerable.  That's the thing about life, there's hardly anyone to talk to when you get to that point where its either you release all of the pain or you end the game. I mean really, who cares? when everybody is also busy fighting their own demons. I was at the point where, i was willing and absolutely ready to end this beautiful game, well of course in those moments of deep sadness and helplessness there was nothing beautiful about my life, at least to me living it. I needed Peace, i needed to Declutter my Mind, which basically was the cause of my...